Not teach poor children, only bad education methods. Parents, teachers, because children often progress is slow and anxious, thus rudely or give the child to wear "brain stupid", "character is difficult to change," like the hat, or since that knowledge shallow, low-level, not to educate their children. In fact, as long as the method properly, any child are excellent; as long as the heart, always able to find a suitable method of education, let the children act as a "little adults." Parents often complain that today's children are indifferent to their parents, the lack of a sense of responsibility, they do not know the child's responsibility is to be an early age, and if you are always in front of the children showed no fear like a pair of wind and rain, the child will think that their parents are not required taking care of them. Therefore, parents may wish to occasionally play a weak, to help children, you will be surprised to find that children have therefore become sensible "little adults", and you can also get a lot of help from the child's east and west, so that children from low self-esteem become confident. Dr. everybody philosophy California James Duo Bolin proposed a "reinforcement rule." When a person's behavior to be satisfied with the results, this behavior will be repeated. Therefore, when the children are recognized, he (she) will be inspired confidence, repeating satisfactory behavior until rid of self-esteem, become confident boy three motivated to help children across the quagmire of weariness. Almost every child will be somewhat weary, which is understandable but not laissez-faire, because such sentiments will hinder the child's enthusiasm for learning, the children's growth brings immeasurable impact. However, forced child is not a good way to learn, it will only deepen the child's resentment, clever approach is to induce a child interested in learning, and let the children volunteered to learn four, let the children a little self-control. Today's children are mostly only child, by family meticulous care and attention, but this kind of life allows children to develop a wayward habits, the future life of this bad habit will give children planted a huge risk. Experts suggest that wayward children may wish to try the cold treatment time, which makes the child due to lack of attention and automatic convergence temper. Fifth, to give children a chance to experience failure. American educator card Le Seoul Sandburg said: "The good times of course talent, but adversity can be a talent in the face of adversity and setbacks and tempered after the child was growing up and more competitive to survive.." That order enhance the child's frustration and force, parents may wish to consciously give children to create some modest setbacks affection, such setbacks education to enhance the child's mental capacity of good. Six foster children to do their own thing. Do not do anything for their children, parents should try to let go, let the children do it independently, perhaps for the first time to do well, but later will be done faster and better. Do not do parents arranged, open hand for children to create work opportunities and platforms, children can have self-reliance, parents will be less hassle.