[Education] Haokun children are generally not gregarious family education factors, most of today's children have only one child, the parents always want their children to succeed, excel, do not require children to lose at the starting line, to beat others. This allows the child to get excited feisty psychology, so he do not care about others, and willing to cooperate with others, just want to win others how. The results created a selfish child's personality, thus alienating others. [Parent training] On the surface it seems, is now home to start a child-centered, child at home by their parents always pay attention, but also try to meet the requirements of the parents, the child will not care for others led to the lack of sense of community . From another perspective, however, is not due to the family to establish a good parent-child relationship, only the parents to understand children, fewer children understand their parents, and communication is a mutual process. So, a family reluctant to bare their hearts, there is a problem of communication between people, how could communicate well with others it? [Family education] Thus, children of parents in the education process, in addition to ensuring the child's psychological development than normal, may also have to cultivate children's awareness of interpersonal skills, teach children how to socialize. For example, the first line to teach children to understand, know the rules, and then let the children play with other children play, let them play what consultations, and comply with the rules of the game. This will allow the child's ability to develop interpersonal. [Parenting] In addition, parents should guide their children observe other people's emotional changes, such as the meaning of facial expressions, tone improves, said angry or want your attention and so on. Because, right feelings and emotions of others positive response, to be able to allow others to accept you and are willing to get along with you. When children learn to respect others, tolerant, helpful and so moral, so far away from his friends. [Henan Haokun]